I find that there are three common hockey families:
- the families that just don’t care except for one person,
- the families that are all huge fans of one team, and
- then we have the one that my family fits under,the family rivalries.
In reality, the Capitals and the Blackhawks don’t have that much of a rivalry; however anytime they play my family goes all out. One time my sister and mom (the two Hawks fans) went to the game. The Capitals won so they came home to this:
Look, I get it wasn’t too nice and it was a sore winner thing, but she would’ve done that if the Hawks won. I’ve said before that if we played against each other during the Stanley Cup Finals “A house divided amongst itself cannot withstand.” We have talked about who would leave to protect our family from going crazy.
As long as I’m talking about family rivalry I must add the honest truth. I have family in Pittsburgh and they are Penguins fans. That makes the Penguins-Caps games that much better. I’ve been forced to wear a Penguins shirt. I had a photo of me taken wearing the shirt in which I was told to smile. Looking back it was hilarious because I’m very secure with how big of a Caps fan I am but back then it was humiliating
So, it is even more tense for me when we play the Hawks in a season game then when we play the Penguins in a season game. I know if we win then I get some serious bragging rights; but if we lose, I will face a day of terrible misery and humiliation. If we win I’m talking to my uncle about the game and bragging a bit.
Family rivalries especially when it’s within your immediate family are so much fun, here are a few tips.
If They Win:
- Don’t shy away and lock yourself in your room; then you seem like a sore loser
- A good comeback to something about how many Cups the Caps have won is “oh so original.”
- Let all the comments slide off your back.
- Most of all, don’t listen to a losing playlist and cry while that game might be important to you it has an 1.22% effect on whether or not your team make the most important games of hockey the playoffs.
If You Win
- Think about their feelings and how you will be treated if you lose
- If it’s worth it go ahead just don’t be surprised when you lose and they do the same to you
- If it isn’t worth it then don’t say anything
- Don’t celebrate like you won the Cup. Unless you did. But don’t overdue it. In the season, that’s 1/82 games and in the playoffs there are generally more rounds or at least more games to win.
- Once again if your family is like my family they are all like “oh we’re all crying into the Stanley Cup.” you can reply “oh how original.” because seriously I hear that insult way too much mix, it up once and awhile.
- Think about others feelings and if they need a hug then they need a hug. Losing can be tough.
Good Luck our Cold Places Friends!